Benefic or Malefic Venus: Relationships

The placement of Venus in your birth chart can provide insights into your love life, relationships, values, and aesthetic preferences.

When Venus is in a benefic position in your chart, it generally indicates positive qualities and experiences related to love and beauty. Here are some key interpretations of a benefic Venus placement:

Harmonious Relationships: People with benefic Venus tend to have an easier time forming and maintaining harmonious relationships. They are often seen as charming, diplomatic, and likable, making it easier for them to attract and connect with others.

Artistic Sensibility: A benefic Venus often indicates a strong appreciation for art, beauty, and aesthetics. These individuals may have a talent for creative pursuits such as music, painting, fashion, or interior design.

Love and Romance: Venus is the planet of love, and a benefic Venus placement suggests a person who is open to love and romantic experiences. They may have a romantic and affectionate nature, making them enjoyable partners in romantic relationships.

Social Grace: These individuals tend to possess social grace and good manners. They are often skilled at navigating social situations and making people feel comfortable in their presence.

Financial Prosperity: Venus is also associated with wealth and material possessions. A benefic Venus placement can indicate financial prosperity, as these individuals may have a knack for attracting opportunities and resources.

Enjoyment of Pleasures: Venus rules over pleasure and enjoyment, so people with benefic Venus placements often have a strong desire to indulge in life’s pleasures. They appreciate good food, fine wine, and other sensory experiences.

For example, Jada Pinkett Smith has Venus in it’s ruling position and aspected by several planets favorably.  Benefic placements assure a person can easily manifest positive results with less strain.  But, nothing is permanent. Planets do progress.  Eventually, this Venus progressed into the sign of Scorpio in the 12th house where she remained hidden and strained for a long time

On the other hand, when Venus is considered malefically aspected in a birth chart, it suggests that the planet’s influence may bring challenges or difficulties in areas related to love, relationships, values, and aesthetics. Here are some key interpretations of a malefic Venus placement:

Challenges in Relationships: People with a malefic Venus may face obstacles and difficulties in their romantic and social relationships. They may struggle with issues such as jealousy, possessiveness, or attracting partners who are not well-suited for them.

Aesthetic Discontent: A malefic Venus placement can indicate a tendency to be critical or dissatisfied with one’s appearance or the beauty in the world. These individuals may have high standards when it comes to aesthetics, leading to a sense of dissatisfaction.

Financial Challenges: Venus also rules over material possessions and wealth. A malefic Venus placement can indicate financial challenges, such as difficulties in managing money, financial losses, or struggles to acquire material comforts.

Lack of Social Grace: People with a malefic Venus may struggle with social interactions and may be seen as less charming or diplomatic. They may have a tendency to create conflicts or misunderstandings in social situations.

Romantic Complications: Malefic Venus can indicate romantic complications, including unrequited love, tumultuous relationships, or a pattern of choosing partners who are not conducive to their well-being.

Indulgence and Excess: In some cases, a malefic Venus placement may lead to a propensity for overindulgence in sensory pleasures, such as excessive eating, drinking, or spending, which can have negative consequences.

For example:  Demi Moore has Venus in Scorpio retrograde and in conflicting aspects with a few planets.  Surely, having one of these elements does not mean the planet is malefically aspected.  A combination of factors are needed.   Eventually, this Venus progressed changes direction and develops new aspects.  Planets with difficulties does not mean gloom and doom.  Hard work pays off to mitigate difficulties. So, yes, there is hope. 

It’s important to note that the specific interpretation of Venus in your chart can vary depending on its zodiac sign and the aspects it makes to other planets. A more detailed analysis of how Venus influences your life based on your complete birth chart.

More importantly, we evolve into our progressed charts.  This is where the key to a professional interpretation is necessary.  Timing when these shifts take place is the benefit you get from a professional reading.

Cartomancy

Cartomancy is a divination practice that involves using a deck of cards, to gain insight and guidance into various aspects of a person’s life or to predict future events. It’s a form of divination that has been practiced for centuries and is often considered a type of psychic or mystical art.  The reader interprets the symbolism, imagery, and arrangement of the cards drawn or laid out in a specific pattern. Different cards are associated with different meanings and concepts, and the way they are combined and positioned can influence the interpretation. The reader might consider the relationships between cards, their positions in the spread, and their orientations (reversed or upright) to provide insights and predictions.

There are several different forms of cartomancy, each using a specific type of card deck and interpretation method. Here are some notable forms of cartomancy:

Tarot Card Reading: This is the most popular forms of cartomancy. The 78-card deck is divided into the Major Arcana and Minor Arcana, each with its own set of meanings. Tarot readers use various spreads and combinations of cards to offer insights into different aspects of a person’s life.

Lenormand Card Reading: The Lenormand deck consists of 36 cards, each depicting a simple image or symbol. This form of cartomancy focuses on clear and direct interpretations, often involving combinations of two or more cards to form a sentence-like statement about a situation.

Oracle Card Reading: Oracle decks come in a wide range of themes and designs. Unlike tarot and Lenormand, oracle cards don’t follow a standardized system. They might have inspirational messages, affirmations, or symbolic imagery that the reader interprets based on their intuition and the theme of the deck.

Playing Card Reading: Using a standard deck of 52 playing cards, this form of cartomancy assigns meanings to each card based on their rank and suit. Different spreads and combinations are used to provide insights into various life situations.

Gypsy Card Reading: Also known as the Kipper cards, this method uses a deck of 36 cards with specific images and meanings. Gypsy card readings often focus on practical matters and day-to-day life situations.

Regular Playing Cards: Similar to playing card reading, this form of cartomancy uses the standard 52-card deck, attributing meanings to each card based on their number and suit. Different spreads and techniques are used to provide guidance and predictions.

Sibilla Card Reading: The Sibilla card deck contains a varied number of cards (often 52 or more) with intricate imagery and symbolism. Readers combine and interpret cards in response to questions or situations.

Destiny Card Reading: This system assigns a specific playing card to each day of the year based on a person’s birthdate. These birth cards are thought to hold insights into a person’s strengths, challenges, and life path.

These are just a few examples of the many different forms of cartomancy. Each form has its own unique characteristics, interpretations, and spreads, and practitioners often choose the one that resonates most with them or the one that fits the type of guidance they seek to offer.

Venus Retrograde Negotiation: SAG-AFTRA Strike

The actor’s union, SAG-AFTRA, has officially declared a strike.  Along with the Writers Guild of America, Hollywood is on strike. 

With Venus slowing down and about to turn retrograde on July 22, 2023, the effects have been felt for the past 3 weeks.

In reviewing a list of SAG strikes, 6 previous ones occurred and were resolved weeks before Venus retrograde:  1953, 1967, 1978, 1980, 1986, 1988, and 1991.  Does this mean there is potential for a resolution within the next 8 days before Venus is officially retrograde on July 22, 2023?  Yes, but only if someone eats a major slice of humble pie.  The likelihood is slim because Venus is in a complex aspect during this stationary period (quincunx to Pluto) for the next 3 weeks.  Major sacrifices, adjustments, frustrations, compromises, emotional irritations, power issues, and control, are required.  If not, expect the strike to continue for up to 4 months. 

There were SAG strikes that did not occur on a Venus retrograde.  The longest SAG strike was in 2000 for 6 months and Venus was not retrograde that year.  Also, the shortest strike was 14 hours in 1986.

Venus rules negotiations. While at the pre-retrograde station, one is forced into negotiation.  The sign of retrograde can bring the nature of the sign to the fullest.  This retrograde is in Leo.  On a higher vibration, this can be charitable, courageous, dignified, and heroic.  Yet, it can be domineering, overblown, and pompous.

A radio station fired the main announcer years ago. The station lost ratings. He was brought back during a Venus Retrograde. In that instance, re-evaluating a previous relationship that went awry became beneficial as it was revisiting a previous disagreement.

Reviewing the value of a person or relationship is strong during a Venus Retrograde because Venus also rules our taste, ability to express appreciation, affection, and experience satisfaction.

There are a few celebrities that are poster children for very bad plastic surgery. The list continues to grow.  I won’t mention names because you probably know who they are!  Some have gone under the knife during a Venus Retrograde and did not like the results requiring a revision.

So re-embarking a previous job, relationship, or friendship may be very positive. However, tread with caution especially when contracts are involved. It is a wonderful time to repurpose items that are hardly used. Go through your possessions and you will find creative outlets for their usage.

New people that enter your life on a Venus Retrograde will appear different after the retrograde is completed. 

The most important tip I can share is to avoid making any major purchases or renovating during this retrograde.  Sometimes, an emergency expense is required.  For example, a car becomes obsolete.  In that case, depending on financial circumstances and financial payment requirements, a temporary car would be preferred.  Though Venus is about the finer things in life and finances, a basic vehicle is suggested.  What is the purpose of the vehicle?  Is it for aesthetics or common use?  If common use, it is better to aim for the longest warranty possible and negotiate a better price.

When items are purchased for aesthetic purposes, one may not like the value or find it worthwhile.  

Venus Retrograde through the houses

Venus is about to turn retrograde on 7/22/23. The houses in astrology represent different areas of life.  Depending on where Venus retrograde is transiting through your chart, determines the area of life that brings a re-evaluation of love, affection, pleasure, warmth, appreciation, beauty, money, art, and desire.  These do not have to be romantic or sexual.  

This upcoming Venus retrograde will have similar tones to the Venus retrograde during the summer of 2015 and 2007 as it is in the same position.  Take into account what was happening for you during those periods.  For example, I know someone that had Venus retrograde through her 4th house.  It was during that time that she developed dissatisfaction with the building she moved months prior.  She felt the financial value of what she was paying didn’t match the quality.  She moved again 6 months later.  

During this retrograde, it may bring people or news about people from the past.  More specifically, the type of people it may draw would be based on the themes of the house Venus makes her transit. 

The entire chart needs evaluation considering the natal position of Venus.  Therefore, below is a general bumper sticker interpretation.  

1st House: A focus on self-image, personal style, and self-expression. It may be a time when you reevaluate your appearance, identity, and how you present yourself to others.  Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  Relationship to yourself.  This is the time to evaluate how well you take care of yourself and how you define self-love.

2nd House: This placement may bring a reassessment of your values, financial matters, and material possessions. It can be a time to reflect on your relationship with money and how you derive pleasure and security from material things.  Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  Your self-worth, security, belongings, your banking institution.

3rd House: Venus retrograde in the 3rd house may affect communication, relationships with siblings or neighbors, and short trips. It could be a period when you revisit conversations, clarify misunderstandings, or reconsider your relationships with close acquaintances. Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  Relationship with siblings, neighbors, and community members.

4th House: With Venus retrograde in the 4th house, there may be a need to reevaluate your family dynamics, home environment, and sense of emotional security. You might find yourself revisiting past family issues or reflecting on your definition of home and comfort. Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  The nurturing parent, ancestors, home, and country. 

5th House: This placement may influence matters of romance, creativity, and self-expression. It could be a time to reconsider your approach to love, artistic projects, or hobbies. Past romantic interests might resurface during this period.  Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  Your children and lovers.

6th House: Venus retrograde in the 6th house can affect your work, daily routines, and health. It may be a time when you reassess your job satisfaction, and work-life balance, or take a closer look at your well-being and self-care practices.  Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  Your pets, co-workers, tenants (if applicable), and employees.

7th House: Relationships, partnerships, and marriage are highlighted. It may bring a need to reevaluate your relationship dynamics, patterns, and commitments. Past relationships may come back into focus. Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  Your partner, attorney, doctor, agent, and banker.  

8th House: This placement can bring introspection and reevaluation of intimacy, shared resources, and deep emotional connections. It may be a time when you delve into psychological or hidden matters, reevaluate financial investments, or confront fears around vulnerability. Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  Partner’s income, sex, traumas, fears, those that have passed.

9th House: Venus retrograde in the 9th house can influence your beliefs, spirituality, higher education, and travel. It may bring a need to reconsider your philosophical perspectives, revisit past educational endeavors, or reflect on the meaning and purpose of life. Relationship re-evaluation emphasis: In-laws, mentors, teachers, foreigners, foreign countries

10th House: This placement can affect your career, public image, and reputation. It may be a time when you reassess your professional goals, reconsider your ambitions, or reflect on your public persona and how it aligns with your authentic self.  Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  Boss, authority, authoritative parent, children’s co-workers.

11th House: Venus retrograde in the 11th house may influence friendships, social networks, and community involvement. It can be a time to reevaluate your social circle, reconnect with old friends, or reconsider your involvement in group activities or organizations. Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  Friends, acquaintances, stepchildren, and foster children. 

12th House: This placement can bring a focus on spirituality, introspection, and hidden matters. It may be a time when you confront unresolved emotional issues, revisit past experiences, or engage in introspective practices such as meditation or therapy. Relationship re-evaluation emphasis:  secret relationships, relationship to your unconsciousness, your private time, and your inner-life. 

Remember that these are general interpretations, and the specific effects of Venus retrograde through the houses can vary based on your unique birth chart and other astrological factors.

Let’s explore with more personalized insights into how Venus retrograde may impact your life.

Venus Retrograde 7/22-9/3

Venus retrograde happens approximately every 18 months; Venus appears to move in reverse through the zodiac. This period typically lasts for about 40 to 43 days.

The effects of the upcoming Venus Retrograde July 22-September 5 are in effect as Venus has started to slow down.  Astrologically, Venus is associated with love, relationships, beauty, harmony, and finances, so its retrograde motion influences these areas.

In astrology, Venus retrograde is often seen as a time for introspection and reevaluation of our relationships, values, and personal aesthetics. It is considered a period when issues related to love, partnerships, and money may come to the forefront. People may experience challenges or delays in their romantic relationships or encounter difficulties in matters of the heart. It is also believed that Venus retrograde can bring back past lovers or unresolved relationship issues. 

 During this period, it is generally advised to avoid making significant relationship or financial decisions, as the energy of Venus retrograde may cloud judgment. It can be a time for reflection, self-care, and addressing any underlying issues within relationships. It is recommended to focus on self-love, personal growth, and exploring one’s values and desires.  Relationships during this time will be re-evaluated.  Are your needs fulfilled?  This is a classic time to restructure your loving nature.  Usually, a lack of warmth takes place during Venus Retrograde periods whereby relationships can turn to ice. 

This upcoming retrograde will resemble the Venus retrograde from July-August 2015 and July-August 2007.  The difference is that Venus in that period was in aspect to different planets. 

Go through cabinets and closets.  You may discover rarely used items that can be used in other capacities.  For example, if you find a container that was intended for holding jewelry, you may repurpose it as a coin holder in your car.  Though that may seem trivial, this retrograde is excellent to declutter. 

Ironically, Venus Retrograde rules antiques. Check the value of items before tossing them.  There could be a hidden gem buried. 

Items remain expensive. This is not the type to purchase major items (appliances, equipment, etc…) I have observed the construction of an apartment building on a Venus Retrograde.  In 18 months it was launched for tenants to lease.  Unfortunately, it was on a Venus Retrograde.  The rents were blown out of proportion.  The building remains 75% unoccupied.  This scenario will require a change in management.    Mind the stock market. This is not the time to make major changes.

Depending on the location Venus is retrograde in your chart will give you insight as to how it impacts you more directly.  Next time, I will cover Venus retrograde through each house in the chart.

Check Venus Retrograde Part 2 through the houses.

5 Steps to Cultivating Gratitude.

As a Psychic Reader, I have developed some ways to take an energetic dip as an opportunity to address self-peace. 5 steps to cultivating gratitude.

1) Say I am sorry (and mean it) to yourself. LET IT GO!

2) Give yourself time. Whether it’s 5 minutes or 5 hours, give yourself time to self-evaluate.

3) Do one thing that may not be normal. Wear a crazy accessory, get that little black dress on, or spend too much on one self-care item you never buy. The point isn’t monetary value. It is allowing yourself to indulge in one harmless “treat” or doing something that makes you feel special.

4) Affirm your positives in the wake of the affirmation movement. It’s incredible how much positivity comes from simply telling yourself, “I am enough” and “I am beautiful/handsome.” One small compliment to yourself daily can change your entire week/month/year.

5) Let go of comparisons! You are you for a reason. No one in this plane of existence is you more than you. If you have the grace to forgive that makes the next hurdle of forgetting a lot easier. Giving yourself time to breathe and release the negativity the anxiety will help. Taking yourself out of the normal day to day, it allows you the ability to see things in a different light. I am a huge proponent of affirming your beliefs by practicing the grace of acknowledgment. Quit comparing, you will never be anyone else other than yourself. Being them comes with a whole source of issues that use up energy and shift focus.

The people you surround yourself with is the person you want to be. So the only person who should ever dictate your feelings and reactions is you. The person you haven’t found yet is the best version of yourself. And you should show them just as much, if not more, love than anyone else in your life.

I-Ching Readings

The I-Ching, also known as the Book of Changes, is an ancient Chinese divination system that has been used for centuries to gain insight into the nature of the world and our place within it. The I-Ching is based on the concept of yin and yang, the two complementary forces that govern the universe.


The I-Ching is a collection of 64 hexagrams, each made up of six lines, that represent various states of being and situations in life. To use the I-Ching, one typically begins by asking a question or focusing on a specific situation in their life. The question should be clear and specific, and can be answered with a simple yes or no.


Once the question is formulated, the diviner typically uses a set of coins or yarrow stalks to generate a hexagram. The coins are typically tossed or shaken, and the resulting pattern of heads and tails is used to determine which lines in the hexagram are changing and which are stable.


Once the hexagram is generated, the diviner consults a book or set of interpretations to gain insight into the meaning of the hexagram and its relevance to the question at hand. The interpretation typically includes both general meanings of the hexagram as well as specific guidance for the situation at hand.


It’s worth noting that while the I-Ching is often used for divination, it is also considered to be a valuable philosophical and spiritual text in its own right, and has been studied and appreciated for centuries as such.

Psychography- Automatic Writing

Psychography does not relating to writing about psycho’s… but that can happen. Instead, it is Automatic Writing.

Automatic writing is a practice in which a person writes without consciously thinking about what they are writing. The process typically involves the writer entering a relaxed or meditative state, and allowing their hand to move across the page or keyboard without consciously directing it. The resulting writing may be incoherent or may contain messages that the writer did not consciously intend.

Automatic writing is often used as a tool for personal growth, self-discovery, and spiritual exploration. Some people believe that the writing produced through automatic writing is influenced by subconscious or spiritual forces, while others see it as a way to tap into their own intuition and creativity. It can be used for various purposes, including accessing inner wisdom, exploring emotions, and working through issues or problems.

It’s important to note that automatic writing can be a powerful and potentially transformative practice, but it should be approached with caution and guidance from a qualified professional. It can sometimes bring up intense emotions or experiences, and it’s important to have support in processing these experiences.
 

Next time, we’ll comb through Non-dominant writing to access the inner child.
 

Non-dominant writing accessing  Inner Child

Non-dominant writing refers to the act of writing with the hand that is not your dominant one. For most people, their dominant hand is the right hand or the left hand, and using the other hand to write can feel awkward and challenging. However, practicing non-dominant writing can offer several benefits, such as improving coordination, stimulating creativity, and strengthening the connections between the brain’s hemispheres.

Practicing non-dominant writing can access your inner child.

You can start by writing simple sentences or short paragraphs with your non-dominant hand, and gradually increase the difficulty level as you feel more comfortable. It’s important to be patient and persistent, as it may take some time to develop the muscle memory and dexterity needed for non-dominant writing.

Writing from the perspective of your inner child with your non-dominant hand can be a powerful way to connect with your emotions, memories, and experiences from childhood. It can help you tap into your creativity and gain new insights about yourself.

To start, find a quiet and comfortable place where you can write without distractions. Take a few deep breaths to relax and focus your mind. Then, begin writing with your non-dominant hand, allowing your inner child to guide your words and express their feelings and thoughts.

You can start by asking your inner child questions such as:

What do you want to say?
How are you feeling?
What do you remember from your childhood?
What did you enjoy doing as a child?
What did you find challenging or difficult?
Write down whatever comes to mind, without judging or censoring your thoughts.

You may find that your writing is messy or illegible at first, but with practice, it will become easier and more natural.

When you’re done writing, take some time to reflect on what you’ve written. What insights have you gained about your inner child? What emotions or memories have surfaced? How can you use this information to nurture and heal your inner child?

Buried memories rarely appear in tact. Sometimes, they may come in fragments through a s sound, taste, smell, feeling. The awakening of memories is powerful.

Remember to be kind, compassionate, and patient with yourself as you explore this process. Writing from the perspective of your inner child with your non-dominant hand can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and healing.

Clues to Relationship Breaking Ups

Relationships? Deciding to end a relationship can be a difficult and complex process, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question. However, there are some common signs that may indicate that it’s time to end a relationship. Here are a few:

Lack of communication or frequent arguments: If you find that you and your partner are no longer communicating effectively or are constantly arguing, it may be a sign that the relationship is no longer healthy or fulfilling.
Different values or goals: If you and your partner have different values, beliefs, or goals, it can create significant tension and conflict in the relationship.
Loss of trust or respect: If trust or respect has been broken in the relationship, it can be difficult to rebuild, and it may be a sign that the relationship has run its course.
Feeling unhappy or unfulfilled: If you feel consistently unhappy or unfulfilled in the relationship, despite efforts to improve it, it may be a sign that it’s time to move on.
Lack of intimacy or emotional connection: If you and your partner have lost the emotional or physical intimacy that once existed in the relationship, it may be a sign that you have grown apart and it’s time to end the relationship.

It’s important to remember that ending a relationship is a personal decision, and you should consider your own feelings and circumstances before making any decisions. It may also be helpful to seek the advice and support of a trusted friend during this process.