Psychic Myths#2: Reuniting Lovers (Gasp!)
I cringe when I see a description of a psychic claiming to reunite separated lovers. I find it funny and sad. My take is simple: If torn lovers are destined to reunite, they will. Surely, there is timing that goes hand in hand with this matter too.
From a more realistic approach to this matter, relationship skills need to be cultivated. These skills encompass communication skills, empathy, fulfilling partners’ emotional needs, communicating needs, being able to work on personal issues/triggers, communicating upset, knowing how to handle stress and difficulties. These skills are life skills that are learned through trial and error.
In all honesty, if a psychic could reunite, do you think this “super-powerful hero” would even bother working? Seriously, if I possessed such power myself, I would undoubtedly find a way to get everything I wanted, whenever, however, etc. Many Hollywood executives would have made sure particular Hollywood power couples would reunite or stay together to protect their investment.
Now from a more realistic point of view, I believe that thoroughly understanding the relationship chemistry, potentials, and pitfalls; one can learn with depth how to relate better to a mate. However, without making a conscious effort to work things out, nothing is going to bind a couple.
The best example I can share is about an acquaintance that married an abusive alcoholic. She had a “psychic witch” perform rituals to reunite her with her abusive husband. Well, technically the man contacted her after they broke up (coincidence.) In their meet up, he beat her again. She got a restraining order thanks to the shiner he gave her left eye. He found a new love potential too behind bars as he was had many criminal legal woes also that resulted in a 10-year prison conviction.
Now if we dissect those 2, his abusive behavior and drinking were detrimental to any relationship. It would seem logical he would have to work on those 2 issues before being involved with anyone as it’s clear that emotionally he was not available. So why would anyone want to get together with someone like this? Codependence! Does that show up in a reading? Yes. This too can be worked on by dissecting the roots of the person. Though psychotherapy does this for most, an accurate reading can examine core issues at hand and get to the origins of the individual.
It takes recovering from the stages of grieving, chemistry, character, destiny, willingness to change, life skills to master to make a sinking relationship get back on track. Drinking silly potions, burning candles, or wearing “magical” perfumes is not going to change anything or anyone.