Marriage/Divorce Bennifer 2.0

In relationship astrology for Bennifer, when one person’s Saturn conjuncts another person’s Venus, it creates a dynamic that can be both stabilizing and challenging, depending on other factors in the relationship and the individual charts. Saturn symbolizes structure, discipline, and responsibility, while Venus represents love, pleasure, and affection. This conjunction often brings a serious, committed energy to the Venus person’s expressions of love, fostering a sense of duty and obligation that can lead to long-term commitment. 

The Saturn person (Ben) may provide stability and security, making the Venus person (Jennifer) feel supported and protected. However, Saturn’s energy can also feel restrictive, leading the Venus person to sometimes feel confined in their expression of love and affection. This relationship can be a profound learning experience for both individuals. The Venus person may gain insights into the importance of responsibility and boundaries in love, while the Saturn person may learn to embrace more warmth and affection. 

Challenges can arise, particularly if the Saturn person becomes overly critical or demanding. The Venus person might feel unappreciated or that they must work hard to earn the Saturn person’s approval, creating tension in the relationship. Despite these difficulties, Saturn’s influence often signals the potential for longevity. If both partners are willing to work through the obstacles and respect each other’s needs, this aspect can foster a deep and lasting bond. 

This aspect often works better when both individuals are mature or when there is a significant age difference, as Saturn’s influence can sometimes feel paternal or authoritative. Additionally, this conjunction is highly favorable in business relationships. Saturn, being a prominent business planet, when combined with Venus, can create a powerful placement for those in the arts, as seen in the example of Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez, who met while working on the film Gigli. Many artists, particularly actors, are born with significant Venus-Saturn aspects. 

The overall synastry between the two charts plays a crucial role in how this conjunction manifests. Harmonious aspects between other planets can ease the tension, while challenging aspects may intensify difficulties. The signs and houses where Saturn and Venus are placed add further layers to the interpretation. For example, Saturn in Capricorn might handle this energy well, while Venus in Leo might struggle with it. 

Since Jennifer Lopez has Venus in Gemini, Ben’s Saturn aspect brings lessons around communication, duality, the love of freedom, variety, change, and focus in relationships. For those willing to put in the effort, this aspect can be highly rewarding, but it requires both partners to carefully navigate the balance between love and responsibility. 

Friendship and independence are key desires for relationships with Aquarius on the 7th house, as in Jennifer’s chart. With the ruler in the 3rd house, communication is again emphasized, a theme echoed by Venus in Gemini. However, with Jupiter in this position, these themes are even more pronounced, potentially leading to a challenge of maintaining ongoing excitement and avoiding boredom. 

As for Jennifer’s future, more marriages seem likely—possibly 2 more. This can be seen by counting the number of applying aspects the Sun makes in her chart, which totals six.  Ironically, the name of her first album was “On the 6.”

Another intriguing aspect to explore in Jennifer Lopez’s chart is the influence of the traditional and modern rulers of her relationship house. Saturn, the traditional ruler, and Uranus, the modern ruler, both offer insights into the type of partner she seeks. With Saturn in her 10th house, she is drawn to partners who can elevate her career and status, placing a strong emphasis on public relationships. She may even attract partners through her career. Both interpretations hold validity.

Currently, Jennifer is navigating two significant astrological challenges. By solar arc, Saturn in her 12th house in Cancer squares her Uranus/Jupiter, emphasizing emotional lessons in love and unresolved emotional issues. Additionally, transiting Pluto is opposing both her Ascendant and Sun, signaling profound changes that will transform her deeply. This period marks a time of recovery and discovery regarding her love needs and the type of partner she desires. These are not light cycles; they represent milestones that will bring about a personal rebirth, making the upcoming year one of significant transformation.

Pluto’s transit through her 7th house highlights themes of power dynamics, facing fears, endings, and control—major shifts that will impact her relationships and personal growth. Legal issues may arise with Pluto moving through the 7th house, potentially leading to heated disputes. The lyrics to “My Love Don’t Cost a Thing” might need a revision, as love could come with a hefty price tag.

Additionally, transiting Saturn is square her natal Venus. Throughout the summer, this aspect contributed significantly to the separation. This cycle is a classic indicator of hard work or distance in relationships, often teaching valuable lessons in love. Saturn, however, can also bring recognition and reward if one has acted with integrity.

While the 7th house is traditionally the main area to examine for relationship matters, especially after multiple marriages, the derivative house system can offer insights into the specific partner one attracts with each new relationship. Jennifer’s first spouse, Ojani Noa, is associated with the 7th house. Her second spouse, Cris Judd, is linked to the 9th house (two houses from the 7th). Marc Anthony, her third spouse, is connected to the 11th house (two houses from the 9th). Finally, Ben Affleck, her fourth spouse, is governed by the Ascendant (two houses from the 11th). Interestingly, Ben and Jennifer share similar traits, as partners described by the Ascendant often reflect oneself. Both have Leo Suns with Scorpio Moons.

Her potential fifth marriage would be ruled by the 3rd house, and her sixth marriage by the 5th house. After the sixth marriage, the cycle returns to the 7th house on the chart wheel. It’s worth noting that Glynn “Scotty” Wolfe, a former Baptist minister, holds the record for the most monogamous marriages by a man, with 29. Over time, there may be recurring traits in the partners one attracts.

Certain astrological combinations are often cautioned against in relationship interpretations. Two combinations that typically receive a red flag are Venus/Saturn and Mars/Pluto. Ben and Jennifer’s charts feature the former, which can stabilize but may lack longevity. Mars/Pluto combinations, on the other hand, can lead to abusive dynamics, though the entire chart must be considered.

In Jennifer’s chart, a challenging aspect between Venus and Pluto highlights themes of control, jealousy, and greed that need attention. While Saturn’s influence on Venus might bring some stability, such a pairing is usually short-lived. The 7th house ruler remains the most significant factor in the chart for understanding relationships.